Wednesday, February 14, 2018
Marriage Quest: Great American Men
by Patricia Britt
The Marriage Quest and Standards
If your daughter has a lot of respectful platonic relationships with good guys through her developmental years in, and outside the family that love and respect her, and or children, and the universe in general, that she instinctively respects from the love she's shown through actions. She's locked into goodness as a way of life, and might not see evil in action.
Say two great guys take each hand and swing her over puddles, and curbs while they walk up the street with glee as a child! She'll never forget those fellas, or the music they put in her heart, and soul.
Then all children love a merry go round and to be pushed by mentored greatness is a gift that will always be remembered.
If a female child sees greatness when she's young, that's what she'll expect the rest of her life.
To believe all men have the same qualities once enveloped in love will set high standards that allow her to simply cultivate chess, and backgammon partners with a pure love for games, and competition with no rush for a mate in the spiritual belief Prince Charming will appear some day to sweep her off her feet with no plan to lasso her prince, because her character would attract her soulmate like a magnet who would know how to act without prompts to lock him in her grasp.
Selection and love are choices of the heart, not an order depending on the individual.
Some people like being told what to do, and desire directions and so it goes.
It's always the good guys fault when a girl child trusts in men with leadership qualities.
You might want to hitch your wagon, and jump the broom to the utmost. Consider marriage can be a mirage, illusions can be sweet, however 50% reality is required.
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Songs
Can This Be Real by the Natural Four
Happiness is Just Around the Bend by The Main Ingredient
The Autumn Leaves by Tony Bennett
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Quotes
Love Will Find A Way by Lionel Richie
The quickest way between two points is a straight line. by Anonymous
Don't mistake my kindness for weakness by Anonymous
Never give up on love by Anonymous
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